Next the anthology turns to a discussion of
education, which was (and is) a vital building block of progress for women and what the
purpose of women's education should be: would it make her
discontented with a married life of domesticity? This question of
education also impinged on marriage and the expectations brought to
marriage. As Sarah Grand wrote in her 1888 novel Ideala:
“The girl has been taught to expect to find a guide, philosopher and friend in her husband. He is to be head of the house and lord of her life and liberty, sole arbiter on all occasions.”
But many women found that this was not so, how
could it be? The same piece goes on to discuss the need for an
equality in marriage and makes the wonderful comment that once women
have secured higher education for themselves they should work to
secure it for men! Many of the writers condemn the economic
dependence in which marriage placed women and the problems faced by
those who did not or could not marry. In order to pay men a “family
wage”, women's wages were generally half that of men's wages,
meaning that “the wages paid to women were barely sufficient to
sustain independent life”. The Women's Dreadnought records
in October 1924 that qualified women typists and bookkeepers could be
expected to work for as little as 4 shillings a week, meanwhile
other women engaged in war work could earn as little 6 shillings a week working ten
hours a day, six days a week plus overtime.
Students in a lecture at the Royal Free Hospital in London
Naturally there is a long section on the fight for
the vote, but what this book illuminated for me was that what the
women of this period were fighting for was much more than just the
vote. I studied women's rights in history lessons at school but the
late Victorian and Edwardian period was viewed solely in terms of
“Votes for Women”. This book demonstrates that these women were
fighting for rights in every field of life, true the vote was
crucial, so that women could no longer be “safely neglected” by the male Parliament and have a say in the laws
being passed, but the suffrage movement was part of a wider movement
to bring women education, equality, respect and freedom. This
anthology does what any good anthology does, introducing the reader
to a wide range of voices, some familiar, some new, around a subject,
providing insights and debate; I most highly recommend it. It is not all serious, there are some moments of levity, such as Ethel Smyth's account of learning to bicycle on the gravel sweep outside Lambeth Palace and teaching the Dean of Windsor how to ride. I exhort
the publishers to re-issue this book, because it is an excellent read and because the issues discussed
within it are sadly still relevant, as is shown by websites such as
Everyday Sexism. It is still available second hand mercifully, I came across it in our local library, the place I have discovered so many of my favourite authors.
I leave you with this forceful argument about the
very nature of woman and an interesting counterpoint to Rudyard
Kipling's famous poem.
If, after four or five generations of freer choice and wider life, woman still persists in confining her steps to the narrow grooves where they have hitherto been compelled to walk; if she claims no life of her own, if she has no interests outside her home, if love, marriage and maternity is still her all in all; if she is still in spite of equal education, of emulation and respect, the inferior of man in brain capacity and mental independence; if she still evinces a marked preference for disagreeable and monotonous forms of labour, for which she is paid at the lowest possible rate; if she still attaches higher value to the lifting of a top hat than to the liberty to direct her own life; if she is still untouched by public spirit, still unable to produce an art and a literature that is individual and sincere; if she is still servile, imitative, pliant – then, when those four or five generations have passed, the male half of humanity will have a perfect right to declare that woman is what he has always believed and desired her to be, that she is the chattel, the domestic animal, the matron or the mistress, that her subjection is a subjection enjoined by natural law, that her inferiority to himself is an ordained and inevitable inferiority. Then he will have that right, but not till then.
From Marriage as a Trade (1909) by Cicely
Hamilton
As an after note, knitters may find the following
poem interesting, although I do not entirely agree with the
sentiment, it reminded me of Kate Davies' posts about images of knitting.
Oh it's you that have the luck, out there in blood and muck:
You were born beneath a kindly star;
All we dreamt, I and you, you can really go and do,
And I can't, the way things are.
In a trench you are sitting, while I am knitting
A hopeless sock that never gets done.
Well, here's luck, my dear – and you've got it, no fear;
But for me... a war is poor fun.
Rose Macaulay, 1915